What to do?
We've just got back from our Friday walk; something we try to do every Friday as my wife is retired so she's on her own all day from Monday to Thursday and is having mobility problems due to a damaged hip.
On our way home we saw an elderly lady, (who I've often seen from 07:00 to 07:30 on many a morning), struggling home with shopping bags on each arm.
When I first saw her she was more erect and although I was rather concerned, she seemed to be OK.
Now she's bent almost double with two flimsy supermarket bags so we helped her as where she lives was virtually yards away.
Couldn't just leave her - she looked done-in!
I could barely understand her and my wife struggled too but this woman is English / British but obviously very, very frail and doesn't appear to be in full control of her faculties.
We helped her to her home - a small flat in a sheltered block - but when she opened her front door the small living room with adjacent kitchenette was festooned with at least 40 more supermarket carrier bags of stuff that had obviously been dropped as she'd come in on previous occasions.
The smell of rotting food was absolutely awful but she didn't seem to notice it and just wanted us to go and leave her alone.
We left her at that point as she seemed to be getting agitated at our presence and we couldn't help but notice that.
You do feel that you mustn't intrude don't you?
However, going home my wife asked me what should we do.
The thing is, what DO you do?
This woman seems to have nobody; there were no photos anywhere and her flat looked like she was entirely alone.
We're just thinking what to do now - this woman needs help but do we stick our noses in - or not?
My MIL is 90 in a month but she's fine compared to this woman so I really don't know what to do now.
My wife rang Social Services but unless we are related, they don't seem to want to know! stevmk2