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Oh CC, that must have been a shock, even with the background. Even though the marriage was long over, he still was the father of your children and you loved him once. That's young to die. I've never been in a similar situation, but can understand how the news stirred emotions ... (((hugs)))Re: Quite Unexpected
I can see what your saying there CC - think it shows what a caring person you are.Re: Quite Unexpected
Hi Cate , however acrimonious a relationship may turn out to be there will always be a degree of sadness for a love once shared and lost..Re: Quite Unexpected
Hi Meg, it has been difficult as my husband's mother is spending Christmas with me and tears for an exhusband may seem disloyal to her. As you say I have had a cry in the night. I faced my demons and now feel that my youngest son who was this his dad's carer is the one who needs the support. Poor lad, his dad has to have a post mortem.Re: Quite Unexpected
That is a difficult situation for you, really. As to the post mortem I don't know British law of course, but when my Dad died suddenly of a heart attack there had to be an autopsy. The law here is if you die suddenly and had not been seen by a physician in a preceding period (think it was 48 hours) there must be an autopsy. I do feel so sorry for your son, he must be devastated and taking it hard....Re: Quite Unexpected
It is only natural, being a caring person such as yourself, that you will feel for the passing of your ex-husband. No matter what happened in the past, it is still very sad for you to hear that news as he was the father of your children.Re: Quite Unexpected
My husband died in hospital but after a procedure can't think of the name but they put a camera into your stomach. My son spoke to him gave him a kiss and went to buy some things for him only to be called back as his father had collapsed and then of course he died.
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